Rules for dealing with people
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What? | Most of people like compliments | Most of people like to talk about themselves | Most of people are like to communicate with a friendly person | Most of people are led by prejudices, suspicion and jealousy |
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Why? | Because, originally people are selfish. They like themselves. 90% of people in 90% of their time think about their problems. People like to be beautiful. And people like when others notice that they are beautiful. | Because most of people mostly think about themselves. They are involved in their own problems. And they want others to talk about them. They want others to share their point of view. | Because a friendly person is more fun and more reliable | Because most of people are not logical. They are led by certain prejudices and false values which they are not aware of. |
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Do not | Do not criticize Do not take mickey out of them Do not condemn | Do not burden others with your problems and views | Do not frown Do not show that you are angry | Do not argue Do not say ‘Your are wrong!’ |
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DO | GENTLY Give compliments Notice their changes
| Be interested in them Share their views. GENTLY Ask about their life, their experiences, their opinions. | Smile GENTLY BEGIN IN A FRIENDLY WAY
| Be gentle and diplomatic Understand them Look for common viewpoints |
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