Friendship is a relationship between certain human beings built of mutual trust, honesty, reliance and respect. The friendship needs to be kept and supported by both friends to make it last. However, sometimes friendship stops simply because one of the friends does not feel /or interested/ in developing friendship. He/she just doe not feel like being someone's friend. It might be because one of the fiends lost interest in other person. Or there is nothing common between them so there is nothing common which could pull them together.
It happened to me that I did not feel lie being a friend to old friends of mine/ I dont really know why. But probably its because we are different now with quite different areas of interest. Therefore there is nothing common to bound us.
Loss of friendsship is not good. But what if you changed or your frinds has changed. I mean, changed, in terms of mentality, values, goals, etc. They are just different person. He/she belongs to that type of person which you really despise. really tyr to igone and avoid because you just cant stand his/her presence any more.
People say that we have to appreciate friendship and remember our friends. Its right and correct. Frtiendship has to be appreciated and evaluated. It needs to be supported by friends. However, mostly it really is difficult, because friends change. Human being tend to change. People change too. Social impact, community influence, culture, traditions, all sorts of values and prejudices based on all ot\f them really make difference. Therefore, when you lose your friends it is crucial to clarify who had changed and what made her or you change. The understanding of the grain - the reason of the problem - will assist you to open up important facts. Then you can have a look at her and at yourself. Who has changed? You? or Her? Who?
If you then there is still chance to re-change. To bcome different. To become someone far better or to find your real self - YOURSELF. To return back to the set of the person who you were used to be when she loved you. However, it is only possible if yo have only the chance. If you dont have one you can fight for the one mor chance. Or quit the play.
If she had change, then it means that she has to understand the problem if she is capable of understanding.
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